Tuesday, December 31, 2013

                      Farewell to 2013


Lucy Maud Montgomery: "Blessed be the inventor of the alphabet, pen and printing press! Life would be to me in all events a terrible thing without books."


It's been a good year for readers. I started out the year with Wendy Welch's "Little Bookstore of Big Stone Gap" and am winding it up with "Mud Season" by Ellen Stimson. In the middle, I've learned what really goes on in hotels, about a New York lawyer on her way to the Supreme Court, and how fiercely a parent can love a child.

What were your favorite books of 2013?

My top picks this year:

Fiction

Miss Dreamsville and the Collier County Women's Literary Society - Heath, Amy.
Snow Child - Ivey, Eowyn
The Dressmaker - Alcott, Kate
Aviator's Wife - Benjamin, Melanie.
Obituary Writer - Hood, Ann.
Joyland - King, Stephen.
The Husband's Secret - Moriarty, Liane.
Silent Wife - Harrison, A.S.A.
Rebecca - Du Maurier, Daphne
Sisterland - Sittenfeld, Curtis.


Nonfiction

Little Bookstore of Big Stone Gap - Welch, Wendy. (More about the book in an upcoming post)
My Beloved World - Sotomayor, Sonia.
Heads in Beds - Tomsky, Jacob
Meet Me in Emotional Baggage - Scottoline, Lisa.
Good Dog. Stay. - Quindlen, Anna.
Fourth State of Matter (essay) - Beard, JoAnn.
Dad is Fat - Gaffigan, Jim.
World's Strongest Librarian - Hanagarne, Josh.
Weird Things People Say in Bookstores - Campbell, Jen.
Astronaut Wives Club - Koppel, Lily.



In 2014, I'm looking forward to reading Tom Nissley's "A Reader's Book of Days" which will keep me discovering something new about books and writers every day the entire year.Two books of essays are first (and second) on my list: "This is the Story of a Marriage" by Ann Patchett and "Fried Walleye and Cherry Pie - Midwestern Writers on Food" edited by Peggy Wolff. I recently had the opportunity to meet Peggy Wolff and two of writers featured in the book, Mary Kay Shanley and Timothy Bascom. Now I want to read more about peach cobbler and Thanksgiving dinners!

Happy Reading!



   

Friday, November 15, 2013




Halfway





James Michener: "I love writing. I love the swirl and swing of words as they tangle with human emotions."



November 15 is "I Love to Write Day." 

If you've been busy writing your novel as part of NaNoWriMo (see Nov. 1 blog post), you're halfway there. Otherwise, better get cracking on that first draft.

There's one more book to add to the "how to" list. Be sure to read "Wretched Writing" by Ross Petras and Kathryn Petras. You'll laugh and cringe as the Petras team inspires you to avoid bad allusions, flowery language and the overuse of sound effects (ding dong, anyone?)

No writer escapes their scrutiny. Various bad habits of Harriet Beecher Stowe, Martin Amis, Charles Dickens, and Vladimir Nabakov are all exposed. On a lighter note, Snooki, Pam Anderson and Naomi Campbell are featured in the celebrity novelist section, showcasing various offenses. 

If you need a laugh after an afternoon spent staring at a blank page/screen, check out this book.

Keep writing!

Friday, November 1, 2013

A Novel Idea




Somerset Maugham: "There are three rules for writing a novel. Unfortunately no one knows what they are."                                                                                                                             




Do you dream of writing the Great American Novel? Seeing your book listed on the New York Times bestseller list?

You may be in luck. November is National Novel Writing Month. You are challenged to write 50,000 words in November. More information and support can be found at: http://nanowrimo.org/.

The NaNo blog is: http://blog.nanowrimo.org/.

You won't be alone as you write. In 2011, more than 250,000 people participated in NaNo's invitation to write a novel. If you choose to take part, keep in mind that halfway through the month, on Nov. 15, is "I Love to Write Day."                                                         

What is the first and most basic advice on writing that novel? Or essay? Or memoir?

Read. Read a lot. Read every day.

And write. Write a lot. Write every day.

Find a trusted writing partner ("first reader") or group. If you're not sure where to find a writing partner, try a library bulletin board or ask a librarian. Book stores often host writing groups. 

Take a writing class at a college or university. Some larger universities have creative writing centers. Check with the English department. A university is also a good place to find a writing partner or group.

Read Writer or Poets & Writers magazines.

Attend authors' readings or receptions. Ask questions. I always like to find out which writers other writers like to read. For example, Jonathan Franzen and David Foster Wallace were friends and sometimes each other's critics. Or, if you prefer a more feisty approach to writers critiquing other writers, this is what Mark Twain had to say about Jane Austen: "Every time I read "Pride and Prejudice" I want to dig her up and beat her over the skull with her own shin bone." 

Exercise! Writing exercise examples: write about, don't merely describe, one room in your house. Write an essay about your favorite childhood super hero. Compose a list of your favorite words. Edit a short story or novel. How would you have opened "A Tale of Two Cities" or "The Grapes of Wrath"? 

Whether you want to write the perfect essay, best picture book or most profound novel, there are so many good or great writing books. These are just the beginning! Check your library for more book selections. 


Now Write series - Various. If you're interested in writing mysteries, fiction, non-fiction, screenwriting, this is the perfect series. Includes practical advice and writing exercises to get you started or to keep you moving along. 

Writing With Pictures - Shulevitz, Uri. For anyone interested in writing/illustrating picture books.

How to Write a Children's Book And Get It Published - Seuling, Barbara. This is a good place to start. Seuling shares tips on everything from plots to finding the right publisher.

Children's Writer's Word Book - Mogilner, Alijandra. Writing for children is especially tricky because of the language. For example, did you know that "unreasonable" is considered a second grade level word because of the use of a prefix and suffix? 

2014 Children's Writer's Market - Who accepts unsolicited manuscripts? What is the deadline for a winter holiday themed article? This is an excellent guide through children's publishing.

On Writing Well - Zinsser, William. If you write nonfiction, this is THE book to keep handy. 

Grammar Girl's Quick and Dirty Tips for Better Writing - Fogarty, Mignon. Fogarty will help you with tricky grammar. Lie or lay? Subject/verb agreement? Too many commas?

The Art of Description - Doty, Mark. It's no surprise that a poet would produce such a beautiful book on rich, descriptive writing.   

On Writing - King, Stephen. Yes, that Stephen King. People sometimes laugh when I suggest this book. It's incredibly helpful and a kick to read. King brings us along on overcoming addiction, staring at that blank page, and gives us his dos and don'ts. My "don't" is don't miss reading this book.  

Bird by Bird - LaMott, Anne. One of the "must reads" for writers. If your writing coach doesn't suggest this book, consider a new coach! LaMott writes bluntly about shitty first drafts and battling writer's block. She also gives advice on handling writing classes that turn into "Lord of the Flies." 

Turning Life Into Fiction - Hemley, Robin. Our own experiences can be fictionalized, bringing to life the advice to "write what you know." Hemley is the director of the Nonfiction Writing Program at the University of Iowa. His own writing jumps between fiction and memoir.  

Help! for Writers - Clark, Roy Peter. If you're stuck, the solution is probably in Clark's book.    

How to Write Short - Clark, Roy Peter. Keep it short and make every word count. Clark includes helpful tips and exercises at the end of each chapter.

Women Writing On Family - Smallwood, Carol & Holland, Suzann, editors. Includes dozens of essays on topics ranging from finding time to write to finding your writing style. 

Writing Down the Bones - Goldberg, Natalie. Writers argue about whether a pen or even the type of paper is important when writing. Goldberg maintains that our tools are important to the beginning of our writing. (You can decide for yourself) Also covered - syntax, writing time and mental blocks.


November is Family Literacy Month.

Sunday, September 22, 2013

                      Banned Books




 Joseph Brodsky: "There are worse crimes than burning books. One of them is not reading."
                                                                                                                                 


Celebrate literary freedom by reading a banned or challenged book. Banned Books Week is September 22-28, 2013. According to the American Library Association,  the top reasons given for a book to be challenged are sex, profanity and racism. Most of the challenges occur in schools or school libraries.

This is a list from ALA of just a few of the books challenged in 2012-2013:

The Handmaid's Tale by Margaret Atwood. Challenged in Guilford County, NC.
Nickel and Dimed by Barbara Ehrenreich. Challenged in Easton, PA.
The Kite Runner by Khaled Hosseini. Challenged in Troy, PA.
And Tango Makes Three by Justin Richardson. Marked for removal in Davis, UT schools.
Fifty Shades of Grey by E.L. James. Pulled but returned to shelf in Brevard County, FL.
A Thousand Acres by Jane Smiley. Removed from Katy, TX school district reading list.
The Glass Castle by Jeannette Walls. Removed but returned as assigned reading in Traverse City, MI schools. Challenged in McPherson, KS high school.

At least 46 of the top 100 novels chosen by the Radcliffe Publishing Course have been challenged, according to the Office of Intellectual Freedom of the ALA.

Are you looking for a banned or challenged book to read? Try one of these frequently challenged books. In honor of Banned Books Week, I'll be reading "1984" by George Orwell.

The Great Gatsby/ F. Scott Fitzgerald
1984/ George Orwell
Catch-22/ Joseph Heller
The Grapes of Wrath/ John Steinbeck
The Color Purple/ Alice Walker
The Call of the Wild/ Jack London
In Cold Blood/ Truman Capote
Sophie's Choice/ William Styron
Naked Lunch/ William S. Burroughs
Native Son/ Richard Wright
Lord of the Rings/ J.R.R. Tolkien
Rabbit Run/ John Updike
Gone With the Wind/ Margaret Mitchell
Invisible Man/ Ralph Ellison 
Lovely Bones/ Alice Sebold
Bridge to Terabithia/ Katherine Paterson
Harry Potter (series)/ J.K. Rowling
Forever/ Judy Blume
Fahrenheit 451/ Ray Bradbury
A Wrinkle in Time/ Madeline L'Engle
The Perks of Being a Wallflower/ Stephen Chbosky

If you'd like to know more about banned or challenged books, here are three helpful websites:

www.ala.org
www.deletecensorship.org
www/tjcenter.org   (Thomas Jefferson Center for the Protection of Free Expression)
                 
                                                               Happy Reading!  

Wednesday, September 18, 2013

                   Summer Vacation


 Anna Quindlen: "Books are the plane and the train and the road. They are the destination and journey. They are home."
                                                                                                                               


Somewhere right now, with a pencil firmly clutched in a sweaty hand, a student is writing the dreaded "What I Did On My Summer Vacation" essay. Traveled to Grandma's house? Fought off mosquitoes on an ill-advised camping trip? Broke an arm while skateboarding? Learned to play the piano?

Then, as now, my essay would revolve around the books I read and characters I met. Packing books along on a trip is as necessary as sunscreen and jeans. This summer,  I had conversations about books on porches, in hallways, in restaurants and cars. Future reading ideas came from sisters, cousins and friends. Thanks for the ideas. This fall, I'll be reading "Orphan Train" by Christina Baker Kline and William Faulkner's "Light In August."

The fall season promises many new books to read, enjoy or wonder how was this ever published?

New books are on the way from Stephen King, Wally Lamb, Linda Ronstadt (memoir), Jhumpa Luhiri, Thomas Pynchon, Donna Tartt, Bill Bryson, Doris Kearns Goodwin, David Baldacci, Janet Evanovich, John Grisham and Terry McMillan.

September is Be Kind to Writers & Editors month, and library card sign-up month. Treat yourself to a visit to your public library and check out the new books and events. Email or tweet your favorite writer/author and say "thanks." 


What I read on my summer vacation: 

Full Body Burden - Iversen, Kristen. A somber look at Colorado's Rocky Flats nuclear facility and the people who lived and worked in the area. Iversen was raised in Rocky Flats, surrounded by secrecy - what was happening at the facility and in her own home. The title refers to the "state of activity of a radioactive chemical in the body at a specified time after administration" according to Mosby's Medical Dictionary. 

Silent Wife - Harrison, A.S.A. If you liked last year's Gone Girl, you'll enjoy this thriller about a philandering husband and his discarded wife. Enough said.

Joyland - King, Stephen. I kept checking the cover to make sure I was reading a King novel. To answer a friend's question about it being typically King scary, no it's not. This is King's maiden voyage in pulp-style fiction. I think it's more of a character study of the flamboyant, sad and complicated people who worked at the Joyland amusement park.

The World's Strongest Librarian - Hanagarne, Josh. I can't stop talking about this book or recommending it to everyone. Hanagarne's writing is strong, almost poetic at times. We join him as he is diagnosed with Tourette's syndrome, struggles at relationships and at finding a suitable career path. We're all fortunate he chose to be a librarian. He writes of the importance of libraries in ALL of our lives. Hats off to Mr. Hanagarne. His blog: 
http://worldsstrongestlibrarian.com/

Fourth State of Matter - Beard, JoAnn. A beautiful essay on a tough and heart-breaking topic - the shooting of six people at University of Iowa in 1991. Five died, one later recovered from her injuries. Beard is the author of "In Zanesville" and "The Boys of my Youth."    

Top of the Morning - Stelter, Brian. You will never watch the morning news the same again. Stelter looks behind the headlines to the ratings wars, over-the-top personalities and salaries, and (alleged) rampant backstabbing.

Dad is Fat - Gaffigan, Jim.  Laughter broke out often as I read this tale of family life. Right off - Gaffigan lives with his wife and five children in a two-bedroom NYC apartment. His own childhood had its painful struggles. However, this is not a self-pitying book. He writes lovingly of his wife and writes humorously of his children.

Blue Plate Special: An Autobiography of My Appetites - Christiansen, Kate. A memoir formed by food and its importance in Christiansen's life. Her novels include: "The Great Man" and "In the Drink." 


Wednesday, May 15, 2013

Square Eyes



                                                "I need to use my most important investigative tool -- my library card."
                                                                                  Det. Robert Goren, Law & Order: Criminal Intent



My mother still predicts I'll develop square eyes someday. I've always been an avid and enthusiastic TV viewer.

From Fred Flintstone to Batman; That Girl to 30 Rock; Law & Order to Good Wife, the television has been a near constant companion. My father was horrified that, while on a family vacation, I refused to watch a gorgeous Key West sunset in order to sit, huddled, in front of a hotel TV, watching a Mod Squad episode. 

However, if television has been a good friend, books hold the title of best friend. Where would I be without John Steinbeck? Trixie Belden? Samuel Beckett? Anne Tyler?

I've enjoyed the best (and occasionally worst) of both worlds.

David Letterman has had me laughing late at night when I've been too restless or anxious to sleep. I've spent way too much time trying to figure out why Hyacinth Bucket (Keeping Up Appearances) is such a social-climber. After watching a few episodes, I decided I really didn't want to keep up with the Kardashians. And why are the Beverly Hills housewives so catty? My husband and I have gotten hooked on two intense dramas: The Following and The Killing. The gritty subject matter (especially in The Following) is the stuff of nightmares. But the writing and acting in each drama is top-notch. 

Amy Tan's Joy Luck Club whisked me from my armchair and introduced me to San Francisco. Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn kept me up past midnight, trying to figure out exactly what had happened to Amy Dunne. I laughed my way through Jacob Tomsky's hotel-based memoir, Heads in Beds. There have a been a few books this past year or two that have me wondering why so many characters had to be remarkably unlikeable: Jean Thompson's The Year We Left Home; You are the Love of my Life by Susan Shreve; and You Came Back by Christopher Coake.

With both books and television shows, spirited discussions with friends and family have broken out, debating a plot's evolution or a character's behavior.

There are times when my television and book worlds overlap.
I had fun dreaming up book lists for these television characters, who have been seen reading in more than one episode. Are any reading lists close to your own?
                                                  
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*Robert Goren (Vincent D'Onofrio) Law & Order: Criminal Intent.
Per Petterson - Out Stealing Horses
Brian Green - Fabric of the Cosmos
E.L. Doctorow - Homer & Langley
Daniel Woodrell - Winter's Bone
Haruki Murakami - Chronicle of the Wind-up Bird

*Debra Barone (Patricia Heaton) Everybody Loves Raymond.
Jodi Picoult - The Tenth Circle
Nancy Turner - These is my Words
Sandra Dallas - Tallgrass
Tatiana deRosnay - Sarah's Key
Lisa See - Shanghai Girls
Garth Stein - Art of Racing in the Rain

*Frasier Crane (Kelsey Grammar) Frasier.
New England Journal of Medicine
Bill Bryson - House
Dennis Lehane (Boston connection) - Shutter Island
Sigmund Freud - The Interpretation of Dreams
Jeff Eugenides - Middlesex
Ben Karlin - Things I've Learned From Women Who Dumped Me

*Brick Heck (Atticus Shaffer) The Middle.
Gary Paulsen - The Hatchet
Robert Cormier - I am the Cheese 
Robert Newton Peck - A Day No Pigs Would Die
JRR Tolkien - Lord of the Rings trilogy
Edward Bloor - Tangerine
Louis Sachar - Holes

*Rory Gilmore (Alexis Bledel) Gilmore Girls
David Foster Wallace - Consider the Lobster
Joan Didion - Blue Nights
Ann Patchett - What Now
Rebecca Johns - Icebergs
Francine Prose - Reading Like a Writer
Dave Eggers - Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius

*Jessica Fletcher (Angela Lansbury) Murder, She Wrote.
Agatha Christie - Body in the Library
Alexander McCall Smith - Sunday Philosphy Club
Catherine Gildiner - Too Close to the Falls
Arthur Conan Doyle - Sherlock Holmes series
Charles Dickens - Mystery of Edwin Drood
Camilla Lackberg - Stonecutter

*Blanche Deveraux (Rue McClanahan) Golden Girls
Debbie Macomber - Montana
Jude Deveraux - Scarlet Nights
Linda Howard - Kill and Tell
Amy Heath - Miss Dreamsville and the Collier County Women's Literary Society

*Dorothy Zbornack (Bea Arthur) Golden Girls
Thomas Paine (actually mentioned in episode) -  Common Sense
T.C. Boyle - The Women
Shakespeare (quoted in at least one episode) - Midsummer's Night Dream
Barbara Kingsolver - Poisonwood Bible
Anne Kreamer - Going Gray
Sonia Sotomayor - My Beloved World 





Monday, April 22, 2013


Funny Girls

"Well-behaved women seldom make history." 
Laurel Thatcher Ulrich 



   My joketelling prowess (and maturity) stopped somewhere around the age of eight or nine. Then, as now, I had a love of knock knock jokes and weakness for puns. I don't believe puns are the lowest form of humor. Arguably, a well-executed pun can be clever word play.
   I think Freudian slips and malapropisms are hilarious. A librarian friend once told me, with a worried look on her face, that she thought a library patron with a suspected heart disorder would require genital testing. I bit my lip, trying hard not to laugh, but wound up guffawing until tears rolled down my face. She realized her mistake and gasped out,"Genetic testing -- genetic!" Too late - I was roaring with laughter. To this day, it still makes me giggle.
   My cousin has an entertaining story, now a family favorite, about  an aging minivan with a stubborn window that wouldn't go up and a grizzled carwash employee who was neither patient nor amused. His disdain was evident by his clenching of a cigarette while growling "son of a bitch" and fighting with the window. The punchline is that the window eventually worked on its own, and the employee was last seen still grumbling and shaking his head. 
  The late essayist Christopher Hitchens set off a firestorm by stating that women aren't funny.(www.vanityfair.com)  His essay asserts that women can be witty and comic, but don't NEED to be...if humor is seen as a way to attract a mate. He also floats the idea that men don't want women to be funny, preferring women as an audience. Sorry, Mr. Hitchens, I don't agree. This tired idea that women aren't funny is wrong on so many levels.
   I still miss Gilda Radner's Roseanne Roseannadanna and Lisa Lupner - characters on the 1970s Saturday Night Live.
   Flash forward 25 years. Also missed is Radner's heir apparent, Kristin Wiig. Wiig's manic Target Lady and pitch perfect imitations of Suze Orman and Kathie Lee Gifford were falling-off-the-couch-roaring-with-laughter hilarious.
   Do you need to laugh?
   How about the bawdy, raunchy humor of Bridesmaids' Melissa McCarthy?
   Or Betty White's man crazy "Happy Homemaker" on The Mary Tyler Moore Show?
   Carol Burnett's Gone With the Wind curtain rod dress?
   The befuddled innocence of Gracie Allen?
   Lucille Ball's vitameatavegamin routine?
   The biting sweetness of Melissa Rauch's Bernadette Rostenkowski on Big Bang Theory?
   The mononymous women who raised our eyebrows and our spirits - Roseanne and Maude? 
   If you enjoy celebrity bashing, you're probably a fan of Kathy Griffin or Chelsea Handler.
   Then there's Tina Fey. I was misty-eyed while watching the final episodes of 30 Rock. Long live Liz Lemon! 
   April is National Humor Month. Whether you enjoy slapstick, sarcasm or even knock knock jokes, there is a book for you.

Laurie Notaro - The Idiot Girl and the Flaming Tantrum of Death- Reflections on Revenge, Germophobia and Laser Hair Removal. 

Erma Bombeck - If Life is a Bowl of Cherries, What am I Doing in the Pits? 

Tina Fey - Bossypants.

Jenny Lawson - Let's Pretend This Never Happened. (Check out her blog, www.thebloggess.com. Forbes magazine has named the blog one of the top 100 websites for women.)

Jean Kerr - Please Don't Eat the Daisies.

Lisa Scottoline - Meet Me at Emotional Baggage. (Who knew that the queen of Philadelphia mysteries was so funny?)

Dorothy Parker - Portable Dorothy Parker.

Merrill Markoe - What the Dogs Have Taught Me. (Markoe is, in part, responsible for David Letterman's success.)

Yael Kohen - We Killed - the Rise of Women in American Comedy.

Nora Ephron - I Feel Bad About My Neck.

Laurie Perry - Drunk, Divorced and Covered in Cat Hair. (I was alternately laughing and weepy throughout the book.)

Regina Barreca - They Used to Call Me Snow White but I Drifted.

Carol Burnett - This Time Together-Laughter & Reflections.

Jen Yates - Cake Wrecks. Check out her hilarious website: www.cakewrecks.com Don't read the book or the website at work - you'll drive your coworkers crazy with raucous laughing.

Tad Hill - Knock Knock Who's There? My First Book of Knock Knock Jokes. (The list had to include one knock knock book)

Yes, there's more...

Books by:
Ellen DeGeneres
Roseanne Barr/Arnold
Kathy Griffin
Chelsea Handler
Whoopi Goldberg
Mindy Kaling
Lizz Winstead
Rachel Dratch


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Special note: the gifted writer, E.L. Konigsburg, died April 19. Thank you, Ms. Konigsburg, for many wonderful stories (for all ages), including "From the Mixed-Up Files of Mrs. Basil E. Frankweiler."


   


Monday, February 4, 2013

                      Pipe Dreams


Thornton Wilder: "The whole world's at sixes and sevens, and why the house hasn't fallen down about our ears long ago is a miracle to me."  
        

Doom lies overhead.

Literally.

After four months of exterior construction on our house, we have discovered a leaking second floor bathroom that is now wreaking slow havoc on our kitchen ceiling.

The same kitchen we gutted and remodeled seven years ago.

Our house, a Colonial, was built in 1934.When my husband and I stepped into the center hall for the first time and saw the living room, we knew we were goners. The tall windows standing quiet guard on either side of the beautiful fireplace with the antique tiles and handsome mantle caused us to have that feeling of love's first blush. You know - the pounding heart, rapid breathing, maybe even a touch of dizziness.

Also like love's first blush, after eight years, the bloom is off the rose. For me, at least. I now feel free to say that I am over old houses. Instead, after years of poring over magazines that highlighted sometimes decades-long restoration and decoration of old houses, I have moved from thinking of the romance of it all to having outbursts of colorful expletives that have made me consider washing my own mouth out with soap.

When we bought our house, it was covered in narrow and unattractive vinyl siding. We hoped that someday we'd have the nerve, energy and money to see what was underneath.

This past spring, we found a contractor who was also curious about what was hidden under the siding. He removed a few pieces of siding, happily discovering that the original wood was in pretty good shape. 

As with many construction projects, there were setbacks and surprises. Perhaps the best predictor of the upcoming project's challenges was the removal of the siding. The handyman arrived one evening and got to work tearing off the long strips of vinyl. His unfortunate discovery was of wasps who had built entire cities of nests under our front shutters. That evening coincided with my book group meeting and an eagerly anticipated dinner out. As the four of us piled into the car, backed down the driveway and headed to the restaurant, we watched as the hapless handyman danced around the yard, arms flailing, hands slapping and legs in constant motion. He became known as Dances With Wasps.

There were days that the crews were early, late, or didn't show up at all. One afternoon, with no prior warning, a portable toilet was unceremoniously dropped off in our driveway.


Our contractor and his carpenters were, at times, awed by the beautiful wood detail that emerged from under the siding, especially around the front door.


Finally, around Thanksgiving, the final touches of new storm doors and a mailbox were hung.

My husband and I oohed and aahed over the dramatic changes, and we weren't alone.

Our street dead ends into a large, busy city park. Dog walkers, moms with toddlers, retirees and joggers all pass by our house everyday. We usually just got a wave or a polite smile but the construction project brought out people's natural curiosity. We were asked: "What color will you paint your house?" "When will your house be finished?" And my favorite question: "How long have you lived here?"

I swear that even a few dogs stopped to check out the progress.

I have had days of impatience, happiness, pride and frustration. That's typical, I've been told.

One lesson that I've learned is how much I appreciate a quiet afternoon at home, with long calming rays of sun drenching our living room floor. No painters. No carpenters. No electricians. Just me - home alone listening to the house's occasional creaks or groans. More than once, I've wondered if the old house was talking to me.

I think I share with most people the feeling of sanctuary. Whether you live in an 800-square foot apartment, an estate in the poshest suburb, or somewhere in between, our homes are where we go to escape the rest of the world. 

The idea of having more work done, and on the interior of the house makes me anxious and discouraged. But the people living in those beautifully restored houses featured in the long-ago magazines must've experienced all of this.

They just forgot to share it. Instead, they showed us the dream.

My dream is to have a snug, dry kitchen and a functioning bathroom.

My husband says we'll get there.

One room at a time. One leak at a time.

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Here are some book ideas to accompany you on any construction project. (Wine really helps, too)

At Home - Bryson, Bill. Have you ever wondered why we have living rooms or just what is a larder? Bryson's book explains how homes have evolved.

This Old Dump - Walker, Laura Jensen. The subtitle says it best: "renovate without decking your mate."

House - Kidder, Tracy. Pulitzer Prize winner Kidder has tackled topics ranging from computers to education. In this book he shares the wild ride that is house construction.

Home: A Short History of an Idea - Rybczynski, Witold. Turning the key and walking into your house, how do you feel? Rybczynski's book guides us through the idea of "home."

The Not So Big House - Susanka, Sarah. An architect, Susanka believes what materials are used to build a house far outweighs a home's size. She is a defender of smaller spaces and greener lifestyles.

How a House is Built - Gibbons, Gail. Written for children, but helpful for adults, Gibbons explains the construction of a house.

A Field Guide to American Houses - McAlester, Virginia & Lee. One of my favorite books for exploring houses. What types of houses are in your neighborhood? Colonials? Tudors? Four Squares? The McAlesters explain the art and architecture of American houses.

Home Comforts - Mendelson, Cheryl. Maybe your home construction is finished (lucky you!). But what is best way to clean and protect your home? Mendelson shares a lot of good ideas.

Happier At Home - Rubin, Gretchen. A follow-up to "The Happiness Project," Rubin concentrates on making home a happier and more serene place, month by month. What I've learned so far is that most of us don't have houses that are merely disorganized - we just have TOO much stuff!